1. Get fitted for a new bra.
Just like building a house, you need to have good foundations. As you will likely have increased in size during pregnancy it's really important to get properly fitted for a bra. I went to Bravissimo and can highly recommend their fitting service which isn't based solely around reading off a tape measure to ensure that a bra is fitting you properly. Bravissimo specialise in bras from a D cup upwards, and even if you think you don't fall within their parameters, I'd recommend going to get measured for free anyway - you may be surprised. Without revealing my bra size online, I will say that I was previously not wearing a bra that fitted into their range but now I am. Even if you're not pregnant you should be getting measured regularly.
A well fitting bra will make your clothes look better and will you make you feel better. Plus due to future breast changes it is important to get specialist advice on a bra that will suit your changing size.
2. Use it as a reason to buy new patterns!
There are some lovely patterns out there, from vintage on eBay and Etsy to Megan Nielson's maternity patterns range.
Image: From this seller on Etsy
3. Or don't buy new patterns but shop your pattern stash and think creatively
You might be surprised at how suitable some of your existing patterns are for maternity wear - in the early days at least. I have found my Grainline Scout T-shirts to be nice and loose and am making a Wiksten Tova top too. There are some great free tutorials for maternity adjustments to existing popular patterns, such as Tabatha Tweedie's Sewaholic Crescent Skirt or So Zo's tutorial for maternity jersey tops.
4. Knits are your friend
Lots of people will tell you this, and it's true. You might still fit into some of your 'normal' clothes for a while, but eventually they'll get uncomfortable. Embrace stretch.
5. You won't be ready for maternity wear straight away
This might seem obvious but I was so excited to get into maternity wear I was wearing my maternity jeans ASAP. But I am still wearing most of my normal tops - the jersey ones and the looser-fitting woven tops. I've also picked up a few tops in this style from charity shops too. There are plenty of looser fit non-maternity patterns you can make up for the early days that you'll be able to wear post-pregnancy too, as mentioned above.
6. Be practical about what you can make
I wear jeans a lot at the weekends but there was no way I was going to tackle making my own maternity jeans, having never made trousers before. Weighing it up, it would have been too much time and trouble to be worthwhile.
7. Embrace having a smaller wardrobe
I've been enjoying having fewer clothes to wear as I've found that I make more of an effort with my outfits and am forced to think creatively about what I wear and how I accessorise it, with a smaller pool of clothes to select from. I may well not feel like this towards the end of pregnancy when I fit into a lot less, but up to this stage I've been really enjoying dressing.
8. Don't keep anything 'for good'
There's really no point making things for limited occasions, if you have a wedding to attend for example. If you try and make some versatile pieces that you really love, you'll enjoy wearing them frequently.
9. Check out Ebay for maternity clothing and charity shops for items with restyle potential
If you don't want to buy maternity wear new then there is a lot available on Ebay. I got a pair of maternity jeans, though unfortunately they weren't long enough for me in the end they only cost £5. Even if you've never tried restyling an item before, now could be the time to pick up something for cheap at your local chazza and have a go making it work for you.
10. Enjoy the changes to your style
Have you got any other thoughts on dressing during pregnancy?
K x
Thanks for sharing these thoughts, I agree on most of them! At 34 weeks, I can still fit in my normal tees, so I must say I haven't bothered trying SoZo's alteration yet. Something I would add is: comfort is your best friend, even if it requires a little imagination to combine comfort and elegance in your wardrobe. But it was definitely at the top of my list when I started having heartburn, sleepless nights, etc.
ReplyDeleteThanks Sophie, I agree that comfort is so important and can be combined with elegance too, with imagination!
Deletei didn't sew when i was PG and i totally lived in jeans and tops. i found bump bands were great all the way through - as i'm tall it made tops that were starting to get a bit short wearable, and you can wear normal jeans unbuttoned with them over the top. would be a super easy make too! i wore vest tops quite a lot with ruching down the side. they give a nice shape and would be so easy to make using something like Zo's vest pattern with the front part lengthened and gathered at the sides!
ReplyDeleteI thought I'd be using those bump bands too, but actually I just got maternity jeans with a big attached band early on so I haven't needed them. Even though I didn't look pregnant for a while I still couldn't fit in my normal jeans, so went straight for the wide band ones and they have been great.
DeleteI loved my jeans with the massive over the bump band! I also splurged on one Mamas and Papa's top which I wore to death, before and after; it had a knitted wrap over type cardigan at the top, was empire line and had a gorgeous light and flowy lawn for the bottom of the top. Best £40 (ouch!) I ever spent!
ReplyDeleteI didn't sew anything for my maternity wardrobe as I didn't actually need any until I was around 28 - 30 weeks when I went 'pop' big style! A hairband around the button of jeans got me through to 32 weeks when I bought my much loved jeans. H&M Mama have some great knit tops, I ended up with three from there and they were suitable for breast feeding afterwards. Three years ago they cost about £12 each. I only ever had 7 actual maternity pieces of clothing and four of those (the tops) got used for at least a year afterwards too.
And comfort all the way. I still have a pair of maternity jersey trousers I was given second hand. Massive over bump band but they're so soft and comfy I still slob around in them now...
Ah, I do need to have a look at H&M as I need some leggings.
DeleteI found I could still wear non-maternity dresses if they were empire line. This meant I could buy new dresses knowing I could wear them after the pregnancy too. Even though it looks normal it does feel strange wearing them without a belly now though!
ReplyDeleteI do have an empire line dress I made last year which is totally perfect for pregnancy but looks weird (to me anyway) for normal wear
DeleteExcellent list! I too started wearing my maternity jeans early. I think the bloat just made me uncomfortable in regular ones. I joke now that I may never go back to regular jeans, haha! Personally, I didn't like the belly band, as the zipper being exposed always scratched me-uncomfortable.
ReplyDeleteI'm certainly embracing the knits. And big yes to #7. It's been fun to try out different combos, I actually feel like I'm dressing better now than before!
Me too! I'm definitely breaking out some new outfit combos instead of my usual boring work wear.
DeleteI love the list. I've been trying to dress my mini bump and it's a challenge. High waistband skirts, and tight fitted woven tops and I no longer get along. I'm enjoying following your posts about dressing the bump.
ReplyDeleteThanks Natalie, good luck with your bump dressing too x
DeleteGreat list! You prettty much summed it up. I DID need to wear maternity jeans early (um... 10 weeks?) because I got really bloated. Oh I just adore Bravissimo... When I was in London I went Bravissimo crazy. Then I got pregnant a few months later and pretty soon couldn't wear ANY of them... my band size changed twice and my cup size 4 times.
ReplyDeleteOh how annoying! It's been so long since I last got fitted for a bra and it's amazing to have one that fits properly
DeleteOnly one tip really as I looked like a balloon during my pregnancies ;) I did have success with one dress I made that had princess seams and was made from a slipperyish dark printed fabric. It tied at the back so was adjustable throughout. I don't know what the pattern was now as I am going back 18 years, but I had a lot of compliments on it. I think the vertical seams were more flattering than the gathered pinafores around at the time.
ReplyDeleteAh, adjustable ties could be a really useful feature.
DeleteI've left pregnancy days behind me now, but I can say that this is an absolutely spot on guide! Wish I'd been able to consult this my first time round :) I found some bias cut dresses that served me well too - though they looked a bit sad post-pregnancy...Lovely photo of you too, by the way - pregnancy suits you! :)
ReplyDeleteThanks Danielle!
DeleteI brought stuff off ebay too when I was expecting and also High Street clothes but just a couple of sizes bigger. I would say just buy a few specialist maternity clothes like jeans and plain tops that you can accessorise with non-maternity clothes.
ReplyDeleteGreat post. I whole heartedly agree with bra fitting even when not pregnant. I am on the other side of the baby spectrum as my little one is 15 months and I recently got measured and fitted after realising how awful my nursing bras were, total bad fit and full of holes! Nursing bras are not designed to last I think. My best maternity make was an Anna Maria Horner pattern for a wraptop dress. I made it in a jersey knit and it worked for pregnancy and for easy breast feeding afterwards. :)
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